• Onuoma's Blog - Relationship Series

    Out with the old, in with the new. 

    I hadn’t forgotten you all. I simply took some time off to try to re-strategize and think of other ways to move the blog forward. I have books I’ve written which I’ve been dragging my feet in launching as e-books. There’s no reason but the inner gut feeling, that it may not be the best timing.  As I searched deep for other ideas, one of which is already in the store, I kept telling myself that it would be wrong to venture into so much and not keep up with any.  So, I’m taking my time and watching my strides.   I…

  • Onuoma's Blog - Relationship Series

    Why did you move on?.

    Two weeks and no word from Onuoma, what could the matter be? hehe. How’re you all doing? Thank you for understanding. Meeting my stated targets seems to be taking longer than expected not so? I realized that some nitty-gritty details needed to be considered before my store can be up. One of such details is shipping. How do I ship effectively to you when an order is made? There needs to be an arrangement in place with a courier company. Initiating and activating this service tends to have its timelines and apart from this aspect, there’s also the music that’s…

  • Relationship Series

    She fights back.

    I would like to take a look at a classic scenario where a lady falls prey to a scheming man. Now it’s not in all cases that this could arise from retaliation. Sometimes the male species can just be quite complicated…The sad fact however, is that on many occasions it’s the timid / meek ladies that fall prey to such guys and how it starts can be quite tricky. For such a timid lady the dating scene to her is viewed as an avenue to connect and have meaningful relationships or conversations. She is totally unaware sometimes of the dangers…

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    She likes me, she likes me not.

    Since my relationship series for last week somewhat focused on the ladies, I decided to concentrate on the men this week. Today’s dimension, could be seen as a continuation of my previous post on the “the God-factor”. If you recall, in that post I noted that sometimes the reason why a guy would decide to take the backseat and be willing to be introduced to his partner, could stem from the fact that he has become discouraged from approaching ladies. So I thought to discuss this in detail today from a different angle. You see on many occasions, the dating…

  • Relationship Series

    An introvert’s tale.

    Two birds once whispered the below words to me – “when a guy smiles at you, smile back”. Mmmm..You want to know why I mutter these words? on certain occasions, I see this as being awkward. “Could he be smiling at me? or at someone behind me? OMG! so it really was me. I’m sure he thinks I’m a nerd or a little bit uptight”. Let’s listen to his thoughts. “O my, here she comes, finally! and this time all alone. I know what I’ll do, I’ll put up a smile, I hope she grabs the hint and smiles back.…

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    …and so what?

    It’s so easy to hear from various quarters the saying that age is nothing but a number and as such doesn’t have an impact when choosing whom to settle down with.Over the years, I’ve had cause to study some differing relationships where age was not considered and there were marked differences. Whilst in some cases the relationship between the couple tended to be blissful, others seemed have a downward trend. In this regard, my discussion excludes all married folks, as I believe that these couples have already taken this aspect into consideration long before marriage. My views are thus targeted…

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    The God-factor…

    I guess this my relationship series isn’t quite over yet. As a result of the various dimensions spoken on lately, I decided to map out a category on this site for easier access to them. I know that most of you would be wondering why I suddenly veered towards this direction. You see, I’m trying to unburden from dwelling on very unhappy situations and although I know that you guys are actually here for me, it’s not something I want to blog about. So, I spoke with a friend before writing this post and we were both giving our take…