I lost two people in a space of one week.
Although I'm still in shock, I know deep down that I need to come to terms with it. The void created by each of them is a reality I will have to live with. Knowing they've both gone to a better place helps a great deal. Especially since each of them was dealing with a level of physical pain before their demise.
If there's one thing that has shaped my mindset about blogging it's the statement I once heard from a colleague.
He said and I quote ... "Sometimes some people tend to post content about their private life all over social media. The nitty gritty details". This statement has constantly put me in check with one drawback being the fact that I'm sometimes unable to decipher what bit of information is actually too much.
You see, losing a loved one can be tough and many times some individuals can't get past it. Not because they don't want to but due to the painful memories.
I came across a teaching regarding this area and the lady said that many times, when moving past the death of a loved one is very painful then the individual needs to take it to God in prayer to step in and break the soul tie. When they do this then they are able to move past the situation peacefully.
Of course I know the fact that I've mentioned the word soul tie will suddenly get many of you distracted. So I'll expatiate a bit.
When one keeps linking the cause of their sadness to the death of a loved one years after they've passed then that situation requires the intervention of God. It is a bond that requires the individual to be completely healed and free to move on with their lives. This situation is regarded as a tie..
Sadly many individuals suffer unduly in this aspect of their lives. It's the reason why some are unable to make decisions that cause them to be happy once more e.g when a widow / widower refrains from remarrying because the memories of their late husband / wife is too painful to let go of, etc.
I guess I've made my salient point. Prayer will cause God to intervene..
That being said. I hope to come out of this shock soon. The memories will always be testament of the impact that they made on my life. This is why I chose to blog about it today.
My shock stems from the fact that it's been difficult to get on with my daily activities. Initially it was a loss of appetite, a longing to sleep more to forget and no particular interest in anything.
I feel like I'm dreaming and hope to wake up soon..
Please remember me in your thoughts
Until my next post, do take care.
***** In loving memory of Mr. Daniel & Mrs. Syreeta *****
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